Wednesday, November 28, 2007
Uncle Wil's Eulogy
TRIBUTE TO THE LIFE OF WILFORD H. DAOUST
As Delivered September 25, 2007
St. Johns Catholic Church
By: Edward J. Braman
Contributions by Irene Daoust, Joanne Braman, Ellen Bigelow, Suzanne & Gary March, Paul and Judith Daoust & Aunt Marie
Good Evening,
We are here tonight to celebrate the life of Wilford H. Daoust. I have been asked on behalf of the family to say a few words and share some remembrances of Uncle Will. I want to thank all of you who contributed -- especially Aunt Irene, my sister Joanne, and my cousins Ellen Bigelow, Suzanne and Gary March, Paul and Judith Daoust & Aunt Marie.
It is very difficult to capture all of the complexities of Uncle Will. A life is made up of roles, characteristics, experiences and memories. Uncle Will played many roles -- he was a husband, a father, a grandfather, a great grandfather, a brother, an uncle, a leader and a friend. These were just a few of his roles. The one thing we all can say about Uncle Will -- he sure was a character. His exterior was gruff, he didn’t sit still for long, and he did things with a passion and purpose. He also was caring, loving, proud and funny man. Rarely was he seen without a cigar in his mouth. Finally, there was his signature trait; he could mumble a sentence better than anyone we have ever known. His family and friends mastered the art of understanding about every third word and filling in the blank. That was the only way we knew what he was saying.
Aunt Marie recalls that Will came into this world number fourteen of nineteen children in the Daoust clan. He was a blond curly headed boy with a mind of his own. He was competitive which was not unusual for a child in the Daoust family because there were so many brothers and sisters. Aunt Irene remembers that at dinner time (one of the most competitive parts of any Daoust sibling’s day) Will would start off with a plate full of mashed potatoes before heading to the main course.
He grew up to be a fine young man and with a sense of pride and duty -- off to the Air Force he went. As happened with many of our service men and women back in those days, the U.S. Mail Service became a matchmaker and Uncle Will fell in love with the girl next door, Aunt Frankie’s best friend Phyllis. They got married and Uncle Will was deployed to Japan where Michelle and Andy were born; then back to the states where Darlene and Mathew joined the family. While he served two tours in Viet Nam, Aunt Phyllis found herself back on Second Avenue where the cousins quickly became friends.
All of the “Second Ave. Crew” remember those years with Uncle Will’s family. We were very young but our impressions of him will last a lifetime. Uncle Will always liked to play with the kids. Joanne fondly remembers how Uncle Will nicknamed her motor mouth. For those of us who know Joanne, its not hard to imagine why. It stemmed from an incident one day when Michelle and Joanne were playing with their dolls. Uncle Will interrupted them because he only heard Joanne’s doll talking. Joanne explained that was because her doll was old enough to talk, Michelle’s doll was a baby and only old enough to cry. Next week Uncle Will bought Michelle a new doll that was as old as Joanne’s so she could join in on the conversation. In retaliation, Joanne came up with a nickname for Uncle Will -- he was now officially “Uncle Mumbles.”
Eventually the Air Force would move Will and his family to northern California where he would retire. Uncle Will always enjoyed having his family visit. Cousin Ellen was one of the first and ended up staying with him while attending college. Her memories of him are of a very giving person who always opened up his home for family. Whenever anyone would visit he made sure there was never a dull moment. Gary and Suzanne made their way west and remember him whisking them away to see all the sites, and going camping. Uncle Will and Aunt Pat in an RV and Gary and Suzanne had all the luxuries their pup tent had to offer. Paul and Judy drove across the country when they were first married and Judy met Uncle Will for the first time. He came out of the garage naturally chewing on a cigar and mumbled something. Judy looked at him and asked “are you saying something important?” They were fast friends from that point on.
I had the pleasure of visiting with Uncle Will and Aunt Pat a few years ago. After a nice visit to his home, he was excited to take us to lunch at his favorite gourmet restaurant – Jack-in-the-Box. Now looking back, it was the best gourmet fast food I’ve ever had.
These stories are examples of how important family was to him, even though he lived so far away.
Upon his retirement from the Air Force he became a postal worker. Will was very active in his community, getting involved in the local Moose Lodge where he was a legend for his friendship, loyalty, volunteerism, coffee and cigars. He was also active in St. Rosary Church where he was an usher.
The last sibling to visit him was Aunt Irene in 2003. She had been to see him many times throughout the years with various friends. It never mattered who she was with, Uncle Will and Aunt Pat always made them feel at home. As with all who visited he would keep them on a busy itinerary that would include memorable trips to Reno, Lake Tahoe, and Napa Valley. On her last trip she and Uncle Bill went to visit him in Zamora, California. Not a big town -- Zamora consisted of five houses, a Post Office, a Community Center and a Catholic Church. Besides his love of people Uncle Will loved pets. With 4 cats, 2 dogs, a rabbit, 8 fish and a potbelly pig, he had more pets at his house than the entire human population of Zamora. When Uncle Bill learned that the pig’s name was Bacon, he told Uncle Will he should have named him Breakfast. Fortunately for Aunt Irene and Uncle Bill, they never did have Bacon for breakfast.
We will all miss Will very much are blessed to have had him in our lives.
Hello from our Nation's Capital
It took me a while but I finally got on. It is good to see all the posts and I think this is a great idea. Tammy and I are doing fine here in DC. David (my nephew, Diane's son) lives in our basement apartment and is the Asst. Manager at Morton's Steakhouse in Bethesda, MD. Tammy is a legal assistant at an international law firm Greenberg, Traurig. I recently closed my catering business and am looking to get back into the political arena (I am currently talking with a couple of the unions I used to work with.) Sorry Debbie D., I'll be back with the Dems but I love ya anyway.
This is our first post however I am going to put some pictures together and also I will be posting the Eulogy I gave at Uncle Wil's memorial, as soon as I figure out how to attach it.
For all the family football fan's it is a very, very sad time for us here in the District. Yesterday one of our top players (one of the best in the NFL) was shot and killed. This town can survive political scandels, electoral upheaval, changes in the power of Congress but when it comes to our Skins, nothing compares.
Looking forward to future blogging.
Ed Braman & Tammy Goggans
Photos of Grandma and Grandpa and Aunts and Uncles
Monday, November 26, 2007
Need a picture of Grandma and Grandpa Daoust
Thanks.
Friday, November 23, 2007
The Bramans - Thanksgiving 2007
Joanne Braman Palmer here. This would not be the winner of the largest Daoust family Thanksgiving gathering. But I think my sister Diane and my mother (Annette) and myself trumped the thanksgiving turkey tradition. Mom is not feeling good at all, she had complications of pneumonia and a lung condition going on. Anyway, Diane and I could not take her out so the nursing home dressed her up, we took her into the atrium and her request for a thanksgiving meal was to have FILET MIGNON. She's not a fan of turkey. What you see on her plate in the first picture is filet mignon, twice baked potatoes with bacon and cheese, some kind of breaded baked mushroom dish (yuck for me, I hate mushrooms), shrimp cocktails and deviled eggs. She seemed to have enjoyed it, because she ate almost everything we put on her plate. Happy Thanksgiving everyone
Thursday, November 22, 2007
Tom & Linda's Thanksgiving Gathering in NC
Thanksgiving 2007
Carolyn Gracey-I have thanksgiving every year and here is my crew this year.
In the front row we have Logan and Nicole
Justin, Debbi, Frank & Chantua
behind Ernie Jr. is Alesha and Ernie is holding Karleigh, Diane, Traci and Matt
Ernie Sr., Pat, Irene, Shirley, Gerard Mike, Bill, Deneiges, Tony and Ruthie
Back row: Paul , Terri, Mike, Karen, Kent & Carolyn.
The 3 teenagers left before the picture Mike, Sammy and Ciera better things to do at that age.
Tuesday, November 20, 2007
Just in time for Thanksgiving... Welcome Gabriel
Friday, November 16, 2007
Happy Halloween!!! A little late
Can't wait till next Halloween.
Greg
50 years and going strong
Ponton on line...
So what's going on with us, you ask?
In October 2004, we lost Bob's Mom to complications of recovery from heart surgery. Since Bob is an only child and so is his dad, this set up a real desire to be back east again. A small piece of property with the requisite 4 car garage came up for sale near his dad in Machias, NY. We bought it as a place to head when lots of company goes there - has a three bedroom mobile home on site. Also, we anticipate getting old out there and Bob can't exist without more garage space than the two car attached at his dad's.
In January 2006, a glassblowing job came available for Bob in Ohio at the University of Akron. Akron happens to be halfway between Lime Lake (Machias) and Cincinnati where Rick lives with his family (3 grandsons). So we've spent the last two years Mon-Fri living in a rented townhouse in Stow, OH and Sat and Sun either in NY or Cinci.
Now, Lisa is in North Carolina as a faculty member at Elon University. This year, she decided that since age 35 is coming pretty quick (Dec. 1) she wanted to start a family regardless of having a spouse. She has spent the last nine months growing the fourth of our grandsons (after visits to a fertility clinic). Due any day, as I've said.
Ernie & Pat's Grandchildren
Ernie & Pat's Family
Thursday, November 15, 2007
Any cousins interested in antique cars ?
Paul Daoust Sr. here ...
I know some of you have old restored cars.
I think one of the twins, Ronnie or Donnie, have a restored VW Beetle and take it to car shows.
I also know that Robert Ponton has a Z28 Camaro.
How about some pictures of the cars and a few stories ? It would be nice to hear from some more of you.
I'll lead off with this picture of my 1963 Impala SS.
Purchased 12/31/97 restored for 3 1/2 years and on the road since July 2001. The car now has 33,000 miles on it and we have taken it to NY twice, Key West, the Outer Banks of NC several times and numerous other shorter trips and car shows.
Monday, November 12, 2007
Speaking of lists ...
I'm sure many of you probably have a favorite method of photo sharing. The two most common that come to mind are Kodak's EasyShare program and Google's Picasa, which is what I use and LOVE. Click here to see what I mean. It's very easy, very intuitive, and their software will even help you organize your photos on your own computer (if you don't already have a system you like). Okay, end of shameless plug (Google didn't pay me, I promise!!)
Anyhow, if you already maintain an online photo album, please share it in a comment to this post. I'd love to be able to add a list of links here so we could all easily find each other's photo albums instead of wading through the posts to find that really cool photo of, say, Uncle Tom and his fried turkey! Also, I could get the family birthday list and family tree and put links to them, so, again, we won't have to sift through all the posts to find those items.
Let me know what you think!
Does anybody sell cars?
Just a thought - maybe we should add a "Go to List" to be used if you have a product or service to sell. This could help both you and a relative. For instance- maybe selling a vehicle means extra commission for you and perhaps you offer a family discount. Imagine- you could just list your product and your e-mail address and anyone interested could contact you. Let me know your comments and if we want to add this feature.
Sunday, November 11, 2007
2008 Family Reunion
On to the the business of the 2008 family reunion. I was speaking with Aunt Yvonne today and read to her the "In death the birth of Daoust Nation". She loved the last paragraph about hers and grandma's backyard being mentioned and said that if it's okay with Aunt Irene, why don't we have a family reunion in their backyard. I spoke with Aunt Irene and she said it would be fine. Of course, there are some rules. She asked if we, the children of her brothers and sisters, could coordinate and take care of the party. In other words, they're donating the backyard and we take care of the rest. I spoke with Suzy and Donna and they are both on board in helping to get this party started.
This is where we need your input and soon, so we can give Aunt Irene and Aunt Yvonne the date and the details. So please get yourselves "invited on", if you haven't already, and give me a date this summer that you think would be good. We would like to get as many of us cousins, aunts and uncles that we can. Like Aunt Yvonne said to me it's been years since we've all been together like we once were in that backyard.
We would like to arrange it so that with a small contribution from those attending that we could rent a tent (in case it rains or is too windy), get tables and chairs and even possibly set up for a clam steam. We would ask that after the date is set that Suzy, Donna or myself, or all three of us could coordinate with each family attending that they make a dish. The invitation will be such that we will be inviting our parents (the states) the first cousins (the counties) and the first cousins can invite their children and childrens children (i.e., my mother will be invited and Terri, Diane, Eddie and myself, it's up to Terri and Diane to inform their children and respond to us, who in their family will be attending). This will make it easier since a lot of us 1st cousins don't know all the cousins children.
Please start giving me dates and any ideas you may have. We'd love to try and get as many of us back together again for what should be a very special day where we are, for once, getting together for a fun occasion and not a wake or a funeral. Also, if someone in your family doesn't have a computer, please inform them of this posting and post a date that's good for them as well. I'm hoping we can coordinate the date within the next few weeks. Take care - Joanne
The US National Whitewater Center
Here in NC we have a new place called the US National Whitewater Center. You can get a real-live whitewater experience and have a lot of fun.
Click on the picture and take a close look at the page included here. Look carefully at the two guys in the front of the raft. Why, that looks like Tom and Paul! And it is.
They take thousands of pictures of rafts on the water, in hopes of selling you one, and they picked this one to use with their ad. Maybe Paul can provide a link to our pictures on YouTube or put the video right here on the page. Have fun.
Saturday, November 10, 2007
This might be where Tom was in the 1962 photo ...
Another Ceramic Memory
Growing up in our house, we had a special bowl we called the Army bowl. Our dad (Edward Daoust) brought it home from his service in the Army and it had an Army medical symbol on it. It was heavy and different, so it was special. All of us kids tried to be the one to get the Army bowl, for ice cream, or cereal, or blackberries with milk and sugar.
A few years ago I found out that my brother Paul had somehow acquired the Army bowl, and I wanted a turn to enjoy it. He was a little reluctant to give it up at first, so I found one on eBay and bid on it. As I was about to get my own Army bowl, Paul finally agreed to let me have the Army bowl with all the memories attached to it. So I went ahead and had the eBay Army bowl shipped to him. Now we both enjoy the Army bowl.
Coming up? Does anyone remember my mother's washcloth slippers? I believe she shared them with her nieces, nephews and grands.
Friday, November 9, 2007
Y'all ever fried a turkey?
From the Black & White Days
THE COOKIE JAR
Michael asked me if I remembered the Donald Duck cookie jar that we had when we were kids. At first I didn't remember. But then he said my mother kept it on top of the refrigerator and suddenly it came back to memory. He told me he has the cookie jar and still looks at it everyday and then he asked me if I knew the story of the cookie jar. I replied I did not. So here's the story.
Apparently after Michael was born my parents gave his mother and father the cookie jar. When his father died, his mother (Aunt Dottie) gave the cookie jar back to my mother and felt she should have it back so my mother had a piece of Uncle Ray. My mother took it back and kept it on top of our refrigerator. Later in the years, when Michael grew up, my mother gave it to Michael and told him about the cookie jar and said she wanted him to have it. Michael still cherishes that cookie jar and said he thinks of my mom when he looks at it. He said he wanted me to know it's still there and to tell mom.
I never knew this story and thought about it all day today and tried to remember the last time I ever laid eyes on that cookie jar and for the life of me, I don't remember it ever being gone from our house. But now that he told me the story, I thought it was bittersweet and endearing and just so neat that such a simple little thing as a cookie jar in our house had such a story and meaning and still lives on. Now the memory of that cookie jar has taken on a whole new memory and meaning.
I was wondering if anyone else has a story of an item they have from an aunt or uncle, cousin or sibling, parent or grandparent that they can share with us. That simple Donald Duck cookie jar now has such meaning - who knew? Take care - Joanne
News from Michael Daoust
Birthdays - A start anyway
Thursday, November 8, 2007
Happy Birthday - Traci
Hey maybe that would be an idea. Is there a way for us to list birthdays somewhere so we can find out whose birthday is coming up. But then, maybe it's not such a good idea. I know some of us are getting to the point we don't want to celebrate them anymore. But, I think it would be nice to know the birthdays. Just a thought. Give me your comments or opinion. Joanne
Wednesday, November 7, 2007
Thanks for Contributing, a little request
Thanks for all those who have posted to this new blog. It's really nice to finally meet some of the my cousins children and find out what the cousins are doing these days even though just in pictures and words.
I have a request though, when you post remember that many of us who don't live in the Albany area, don't see each other for years at a time, don't know your married names and thus don't know who is posting until the end of the post.
I usually manage to figure it out, but if you start off with your name and relation it would help those of us who don't live in the Albany area to know who we are reading about at the beginning of the post.
Thanks
Tuesday, November 6, 2007
Just a quick thanks
Mary Lindecke
"Gerard" state
Monday, November 5, 2007
Update from Donna
Mom is doing good, she has recovered from her broken leg very nicely. Looking forward to hearing more family news. Donna
Tom & Linda with the MetLife Blimp
Linda and I had fun seeing this MetLife blimp up close after the Carolina Panthers played the Colts here in Charlotte. The Panthers got stomped pretty bad in that football game.
I am an agent with MetLife and we were given a rare invitation to see the blimp up close. We chatted with the pilot and crew as well.
The only ones who get to ride in the blimp anymore are the pilot and cameramen, but we had fun sitting inside it as it bounced several inches off the ground while tethered to a pole. So I tell people we flew in it.
Sunday, November 4, 2007
Back in 1969..
Front Row: Paul Sr. and Judith October 2004
Saturday, November 3, 2007
July 04 visit to NY
On a trip to NY we went on a Lake George cruise. Who did we bump into? Aunt Irene and Uncle Bill. What a nice surprise.
If you ever move away from central NY you will miss Lake George. With it's gorgeous tree-lined mountains, and plentiful islands, it is one of this country's greatest natural treasures. We miss it.
More Aunts at Thanksgiving Time
Aunt Irene - Thanksgiving 2002
Stepson Jonathan
Carrying on a proud tradition
Many Daoust men made a living building with wood (Gerard, Bernie, and others). Our grandpa worked at it full time, and my dad built the house we grew up in in Latham. So I am sure it is in my chromogenes to work with wood.
Here I am at Linda's school, assembling a kiddy stool for one of her grade school classes. I've built about 30 of these. Josee and Jim's son Danny will get one in a few weeks when we all get together at Brian's wedding. Michael Cusick's daughter Bethany has one as well.
In the lower right corner of this picture is a little guy named Robert. He is a dwarf. I built this kiddy stool mainly to help him.
Thursday, November 1, 2007
The "Gerard" State
By the way if you did'nt figure it out by now I am Gerard Jr., my dad was the last born #7 of the first group. Yvonne died with her 8th John. I will get around to some photos soon and explain for the younger people who is in my part of this Nation I think we all could use a little refresher so feel free to do the same, names, locations and the like, I think that would be great!
Kind of corny but maybe we all take the que and refer to the original brothers and sisters as the States of this great Nation? just a thought.
OK I'm done for now but I'm gonna leave you with one of my friend "George Carlins" New Rules: Ladies, leave your eyebrows alone. Here's how much men care about your eyebrows: do you have two of them? Okay, we're done.
Everyone keep up the good work.